While listening to a reputable news radio station this morning, I was stunned to hear a woman voter who was interviewed state that, “as a woman, I will not vote for a woman. I do not believe women are capable of leading.” While this interview was focused on the presidential campaign, I was left with the following questions:
• To lead what – the nation, an organization, a classroom, their family? Where does such a sweeping statement about leadership stop?
• Based on gender? In fact, recent studies have shown that the leadership style naturally demonstrated by women (teamwork, multitasking, and communication) are those most needed now and into the future.
Leadership is about an individual standing up and making a positive difference in their community; whether that community is in their family, in their workplace, or in their elected position. Leadership is about having the courage to want to make a difference, and demonstrating the necessary skills in a way that engages those who will be led.
Leadership is not about gender, or race for that matter. Rather than making categorical indictments, start looking at the unique capabilities that an individual can bring to a leadership position.
Women aren’t capable of being leaders?
December 13, 2011 | 14 Comments
December 14, 2011 at 4:06 pm
I heard the same news story and after picking my jaw up off the floor, thought some of the same questions. I also started wondering if this woman speaking realizes her own capabilities as a leader even in the statement she made.
I don’t think leadership is about gender, but I do think women are able to lead in a way that may be different than men. I think the most effective leaders are able to use tools like the ones Jane Stephens talks about:
Building bridges/collaboration with stories to connect rather than impress
Identify with weakness and possibility and strength and achievement
Organize Chaos
Speak from a sense of identity outside of their postion
step easily out of “The Procession” as defined by Virginia Woolf – “the procession of educated men” Do you play the game, change the rules, or don’t play at all?
Deep Capacity for giving attention
Awakened to a sense of purpose
Close Readers
Value the real conversation – “turning together”
They talk back
They have the power of benediction – giving blessing
Keep up the real conversation! Thanks for posting.
December 14, 2011 at 7:19 pm
Thank you so much for responding to the caller’s statement. I was stunned and my thoughts immediately turned to the capable women leaders (that I am aware of) in the world and those in my personal life. Because of women leaders, women in this country have the right to vote. A privilege people are giving their lives for in other countries today. All of our voices (women and men) are required to make positive change in our world. Thank you again for posting.
December 15, 2011 at 5:12 am
Both sides are wrong but for different reasons. Can women lead? Yes. Can they lead better than men into the future? That is a loaded question. Leadership style has nothing to do with gender. Leadership styles are nothing but tools in a box. You need different styles at different times. DeAngelis slips into essentialism by writing that there is a “natural” leadership style of women. It actually seems to me that women in leadership positions use the same fundamental methods and strategies as men in the same positions. Any difference at that level is only superficial. They’ve all read Machiavelli and Sun Tzu. But the woman voter on the radio (NPR?) is so wrong that what she said isn’t even wrong. DeAngelis is only wrong on the point of essentialism (but is right on everything else) if my perception of it is accurate. In any case, the last two sentences do describe my position in full. Apologies for not organizing this response properly.
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February 11, 2012 at 6:38 pm
Indeed, leadership is not about gender nor race. It is all about one’s unique capability and desire to influence others to do good and improve themselves. It is all about one’s courage to stand up on what s/he thinks is right, be it difficult.
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