Dear Prospective Student or Family of a Prospective Student or Current Faculty,
I am writing this blog post because I want to share my experiences with UMass Boston as a first year student here.
This was my first year in college and at UMass Boston. It began in September 2009. During the summer, I began the process of getting housing near campus. You probably already know that there is no on-campus housing that is provided by the school. There is, however, two main apartment complexes that the university recommends. The university also has a Office of Student Housing to help with the process of finding housing and roommates that also attend UMass Boston.
Through UMass Boston’s Office of Student Housing, I immediately began the process of "Roommate Matching." This process consists of filling out a Roommate Matching form and then waiting to hear back from the office about which students have been matched as roommates. And so, I waited. I received one list of four girls (including me) via email and directions to contact these girls to see if they were still looking for a roommate. One of the girls was not, but there were three of us who were. We notified the Office of Student Housing that we still needed one more roommate in order to fill the required 4 students for a 2 bedroom apartment which is the encouraged arrangement by Student Housing. My potential roommates and I did not hear from the Student Housing Office (specifically a woman named Alanna) even after we each tried to notify them of the situation multiple times. September was fast approaching and we had no place to live. The Office of Student Housing was not helping, so we took our housing paper work out of the UMass system and took it directly over to Harbor Point Apartments. By working with Harbor Point Directly, we were able to get an apartment for the three of us at a cheaper price than if we had done it through the school.
I met both of my roommates prior to getting the apartment and we agreed to move in together. The apartment would house Rachel, a sophomore in college but a first-year UMass Boston Student, Yasmine, and I, both freshman and first-years at UMass Boston. Rachel and I would share a room while Yasmine paid $45 more than us to have her own room. The electricity was in Yasmine’s name and she was responsible for paying that bill. The Internet/Cable was in Rachel’s name and her and I were responsible for splitting that bill. We worked it out this way because we each ended up paying the same amount.
Starting in November there began to be problems. Rachel called a meeting in which she told Yasmine and I that she wanted to move out but she was looking for another roommate to take her spot. When Christmas Break came around, Rachel and Yasmine both went home. Yasmine came back to the aparmtent when school began, but Rachel did not. She kept saying that she would, but she never did and eventually we stopped asking. She did however, come to the apartment every once in a while to throw a party and then left without cleaning up. She also continued to collect half of the Internet/Cable money from me. In March, we found out that she had not paid the Internet/Cable bill since January because it got shut off. Rachel never admitted to the nonpayment and she eventually (but with much resistance) canceled the service so that I could re-open it in my own name. Rachel was no longer fond of me because of this exchange, and she continued to live at her parents house.
In May, Yasmine also started problems. Honestly, our problems began with a pot and pan. I seriously did not see this one coming. We had been getting along very well, we even had a class together. I let her use my book for it (Economics Class) since she never bought one and we studied together and hung out together. We were pretty good friends. If we ever had roommate-related problems we would address them right away and the source was usually a miscommunication anyway. This time, Yasmine did not come to me to talk about the problem. She automatically got mad and refused to talk with me about it. She even refused to give my Economics book back to me because of the situation. I emailed the Office of Studnet Housing about the saituation hoping that they could help resolve it. After a couple days of being mad, threatening me and my things, and refusing to give my book back, Yasmine came into my room and woke me from a nap by yelling at me. She then threw a bottle at me, pushed me, and pulled my hair. At this point I called the police. I left the apartment after a police report was filed and did not return. I did file a restraining order against her as well because I was afraid of what she might do if I saw her on campus or something.
The next day the Housing Office got back to me. I went in for a meeting with them and explained what had happened. They told me that they would send Yasmine an email to see if she would go in for a meeting. I told them that I really hoped that Yasmine would respond to them, but I honestly doubted that she would. Sure enough, no response. They had no further advice for me.
She still had my Economics book which I had rented (and therefore had to return) so I still needed someone to help me contact her because I couldn’t for fear that she would irrationally harm me again. At this time I also contacted the Harbor Point Leasing Office and Management Office to see if there was any way that I could get off of the lease because my roommate had made it unsafe for me to be there. They said that there was nothing that they could do, but they did tell me to talk to their Housing Opportunities Unlimited office to resolve a roommate issue. I did go over to talk to them and they were able to contact and speak to Yasmine. They told me after speaking to Yasmine that she was refusing to give my Economics book back until Wednesday May 12th, just because. I agreed to that because at least I wouldn’t have to pay a replacement fee for the book because I was getting it back.
Meanwhile, the Dean of Student’s office called me back and my mother answered. She expressed her own frustration that I had gotten zero help from the school. I was even more frustrated than my mom was. I had told my story countless times by that time and had cried in front of too many people. I was traumatized and in danger in my own apartment and for that reason, I was not living there. I had been sleeping on friend’s and family’s couches and the school had no help for me. The Office of Student Housing left me to deal with it myself. The Dean of Students set up a meeting with me.
Again I told my story and cried out my fear and frustration to the Dean of Students, Joyce Morgan, and Stand-In Director of Student Housing, Kelly Meehan, of UMass Boston. They told me that they would help. The Dean of Students said that she would address the act of violence between two UMass students. On the subject of my living arrangement, they told me that I would have to talk to Alanna (the same woman who had "helped" my roommates and I during the summer). I told them that I had already asked Alana if I could find a new person to take my place in the apartment but that she told me that the only way to do that was to ask my roommates to fill out a Roommate Matching form. That was really not helpful because both of my roommates hated me and one had assaulted me. I was not about to ask them to fill out a Roommate Matching Form. So the Stand-In Director of Housing, Kelly Meehan, asked me what the ideal situation would be. I told her that ideally, the university would recognize that this is a dangerous situation and to remove me from the apartment and try to find a new roommate to replace me. She said that she will try to help me with finding someone to take my spot but she could not do anything to release me from the lease because Harbor Point was an independent company from the school. Our lease stood irrelevant to what happened between UMass Boston students.
Kelly Meehan then walked me down to the Office of Student Housing in order to help me find someone to fill my space. After resistance from Alanna, Kelly Meehan eventually got me what I wanted which was to make an ad for my spot in the apartment so that other UMass Boston students could have access to it.
I emailed Kelly Meehan the ad later that day and I never heard back from her. I sent her another email to make sure I was sending things to the correct email address and still never heard back from her. I looked her up in the school directory and I did have the correct email address. My frustration continues.
My experience with UMass Boston has been absolutely horrible. I did well in my classes and I like the academics, but my frustration and bad experiences with the housing portion of it outweigh any good experiences I have had. I plan on transferring to a school with dorms. If I had gone to any other state school, I wouldn’t have had this truly terrible experience. I would have had a support system within the school to call on. I would have been able to change rooms before being assaulted. I would have been able to speak to school authorities and they would have had a preexisting plan to help me out instead of me telling them what I needed them to do.
I would advise against any new high school graduates from attending UMass Boston unless they are continuing to live with their parents until they graduate.