#3 for Civility: THINK THE BEST
Oct 26th, 2009 by Marita Labedz Poll
P.M. Forni makes some excellent points when he outlines the third rule. I’ve outlined some of the best points (I think) below:
“Thinking the best of others is a decent thing to do and a way of keeping a source of healthful innocence in our lives. When we approach others assuming that they are good, honest, and sensitive, we often encourage them to be just that.”
“I appreciate exceptional intelligence, I can be charmed by beauty, and I am intrigued by charisma. But I will be moved by goodness.”
“So, when it comes to people, have great expectations: it will be good for your soul, and it may touch theirs.”
I think this rule is extremely important. EVERYONE has value- in our community- and when we think the best and expect the best- those around us are encouraged and we are as well.